Patricia “Pat” was a woman of many roles. As a mother, grandmother “Grama”, great-grandmother “GG”, sister, auntie, friend, mentor, sponsor, and friend, Pat made ripples wherever she went and with whoever she met. These ripples showed others they too could be courageous and kind, defining characteristics of our beloved mother.
Pat was born in Killam, Alberta in 1941 and soon moved with her family to the new suburb in Highlands. Her childhood was spent much like her adulthood, filled with countless adventures. From a young age, Pat demonstrated a love for movement, learning and connection. In her early years, Pat could be found figure skating, dancing, or enjoying time at the lake. Later in life, Pat often spent time golfing, swimming, and traveling the world. To know Pat was to love her, and admire the tenacity she had for this life.
As a vivacious, enigmatic, and social woman, Pat was no stranger to speaking to people on a regular basis. When Pat started to notice her voice turning more hoarse, Pat and her family became concerned. These concerns continued to increase as other symptoms emerged, such as difficulty holding a pen, numbness in her tongue and general weakness that came with an intensity that could not be simply attributed to the process of aging.
Our families fears were confirmed November 2022, when Pat received the diagnosis of ALS bulbar-onset.
When ALS took away her ability to speak, Pat persevered. Communicating with the many visitors she had with a pen and paper or diligently typing away with her speech-assistance device.
When ALS took away her ability to walk, Pat persevered. With the support of the ALS Society and their gracious equipment donations, Pat fiercely held onto her independence using her walkers and later her wheelchair to support her in getting to all the places she wanted to be.
Our family is profoundly grateful for the exceptional support the ALS Society of Alberta extended to our beloved mother throughout her journey with ALS. Their unwavering dedication and compassionate care were invaluable to both Patricia and our family. From providing essential medical equipment including various walkers, a power wheelchair, transfer pole, bath transfer seat and speech amplifier, to offering emotional support and guidance, the ALS Society of Alberta ensured Patricia received the best possible care and maintained her dignity every step of the way. Thanks to their efforts, our Grama was able to face each day with courage and grace right until the very end. On March 1, 2024, at age 83, Patricia passed away peacefully surrounded by her adoring family. Though she may be gone from our sight, Pat will forever remain in our hearts, a beacon of love and light guiding us through life's journey.